“Just what you and I would do, of course; he smiled back at the baby. Soon he struck up a conversation with the woman about her baby and his grandchildren, and soon the entire reception room joined in, and the boredom and tension were converted into a pleasant and enjoyable experience.”
An insincere grin? That doesn’t fool anybody. We know it is mechanical and we resent it. I am talking about a real smile, a heartwarming smile, a smile that comes from within, the kind of smile that will bring a good price in the marketplace.
Professor James V. McConnell, a psychologist at the University of Michigan, expressed his feelings about a smile. “People who smile,” he said ,“tend to manage teach and sell more effectively, and to raise happier children. There’s far more information in a smile than a frown. That’s why encouragement is a much more effective teaching device than punishment.”
The employment manager of a large New York department store told me she would rather hire a sales clerk who hadn’t finished grade school, if he or she has a pleasant smile, than to hire a doctor of philosophy with a somber face.
The effect of a smile is powerful—even when it is unseen telephone companies throughout the United States have a program called “phone power” which is offered to employees who use the telephone for selling their services or products. In this program they suggest that you smile when talking on the phone. Your “smile” comes through in your voice.
The chairman of the board of directors of one of the largest rubber companies “In the United States told me that, according to his observations, people rarely succeed at anything unless they have fun doing it. This industrial leader doesn’t put much faith in the old adage that hard work alone is the magic key that will unlock the door to our desires , “I have known people, “he said,” The one who succeeded because they had a rip-roaring good time conducting their business. Later, I saw those people change as the fun became work. The business had grown dull, they lost all joy in it, and they failed.”
You must have a good time meeting people if you expect them to have a good time meeting you.
在纽约举行的一个宴会上，有一位得到大笔遗产的女宾客迫切想要给每一个人留下一个好印象。她不惜重金买来貂皮、钻石和珍珠，但是在自己的脸上却没有下任何工夫—— 一脸的尖酸刻薄、自私自利。她没有意识到一个众所周知的道理：一个人的面部表情要比身上的衣服重要得多。
史考伯对我说，他的笑容值一百万美元，他也许是在有意淡化这一事实。史考伯的个性和魅力以及让人喜欢他的能力几乎是他取得非凡成就的全部原因所在。并且他个性中最令人愉快的因素之一就是他那迷人的微笑。
行动比语言更有力。一个微笑表达的是：“我喜欢你，你让我感到很开心，我非常高兴见到你。”这就是小狗得宠的原因。小狗见到我们会表现出欣喜若狂的高兴劲儿，所以，我们见到小狗自然也感觉很开心。
婴儿的微笑也有同样的效果。你曾经在医生的候诊室里留意过那些等待看病的阴郁面孔吗？密苏里州雷顿市的兽医史蒂芬·史波尔告诉过我一件事：在某年的一个春天，他的候诊室里排满了前来给宠物接种疫苗的人，没有人闲聊，他们大概都在想着其他事情，而不是待在候诊室里“浪费时间”。他对我说：“有六七个人在等着给他们的宠物接种疫苗时，一个年轻女人带着一个九个月大的婴儿和一只小猫走进来。事有巧合，她坐在已经等得有些发狂了的男人旁边。当他扭过头时，婴儿正用那天真无邪的笑容注视着他。那个男人会做什么呢？”
“当然，他和你我的反应一样，扭过头去朝着婴儿微笑。很快他就和那个女人攀谈起来，聊起了她的孩子和他自己的孙子。不多一会儿，整个候诊室的人都参与了进来，厌倦和紧张变成了快乐和享受。”
那虚假的笑容呢？那是不可能欺骗任何人的。我们都知道那种笑是机械的，我们厌恶它。我所要谈的是真诚的、暖人心房的、发自内心的微笑，它是人际关系中的无价之宝。
密歇根大学的心理学家詹姆斯·麦克奈尔教授表达了他对微笑的看法：“面带微笑的人们会在管理、教学和营销方面卓有成效，也会培养出心情愉悦的孩子。微笑比蹙眉能更好地传达信息。这就是为什么在教育上奖励要比惩罚更有效的原因。”
一位纽约超市的人事经理对我说，她宁愿聘用一个没有学历但有着舒适微笑的人，也不愿聘用一个满面冰霜的哲学博士。
微笑的力量是巨大的——即使它是无形的。遍布全美的电话公司有一个叫“电话力量”的项目，就是要求员工用电话来销售他们的服务和产品。在此项目中，公司建议员工在打电话时要面带微笑。你的“微笑”会通过你的声音传递给客户。
美国一家大型橡胶公司的董事长告诉我，他通过观察发现，除非对自己所做的事有兴趣，否则人们很难获得成功。这位商业巨头对于“努力是通向成功之门的唯一钥匙”这句古语并不赞同。他说：“我所认识的一些人，他们的成功是因为做了自己感兴趣的工作。后来，他们对工作渐渐没了兴趣，于是生意萧条了，最终失败了。”
如果你希望他人在见到你时心情是愉悦的，那你也必须在见到他们时心情是愉悦的。
Ace in the Hole
keywords and expressions
inherit [in'herit]
inherit 单词分析 inherit既可以作及物动词，也可以作不及物动词，在作及物动词时，意为继承（传统、遗产等）。
例：He inherited his father’s farm.
他继承了父亲的农场。
或者意为经遗传而获得（性格、特征等）。
例：Jane inherited her mother’s big eyes.
简遗传了她妈妈的大眼睛。
词组：at full stretch 非常紧张；尽力而为
在作不及物动词时，意为成为财产(或权利等)的继承人或获得性格(或特征等)的遗传。
Chunks in Practice
Translate the following sentences into English or Chinese.
1. The expression one wears on one’s face is far more important than the clothes one wears on one’s back.
2. 如果你希望他人在见到你时心情是愉悦的，那你也必须在见到他们时心情愉悦。
Now a Try
试着运用strike up, convert into, squander, insincere,inherit撰写一篇200字的小短文。
